The Mormons in USA, from Lds Chat
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Joseph Smith “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons), based in New York in 1830, believes that if the Bible is the word of God, it nevertheless contains errors due the way it came. It is also incomplete and can not be understood without the other writings that make up the canonical books of their churches: the Doctrine and Covenants, the Pearl of Great Price, and especially the Book of Mormon. In 1823, say the Mormons, Joseph Smith, prophet and founder of the Church, was not conducted an angel named Moroni to a hill near Palmyra (Ontario), where he showed him a sacred engraved on metal plates that had the appearance of gold. This document contained the secular and religious history of an ancient American civilization. Four years later, Joseph Smith received permission to remove the plates of the hill. The inscriptions were translated into English and published as the Book of Mormon, the latter being one of the ancient prophets and American historians who had held the record.
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The Book of Mormon contains the history of various civilizations of ancient America between 2200 BC and 440 AD, approximately. Found in this book the story of the ministry of Jesus Christ in the Americas after his crucifixion, his resurrection and ascension into the Holy Land in the Old World. During revelations, Joseph Smith learned that the original church founded by Jesus in Palestine (thus accepting the premise that Jesus had founded though it is) was corrupt after the death of the apostles and the churches of Rome and Constantinople were guilty of apostasy. The Protestant Reformation, though sincere, was the offshoot of an initial error and also guilty of apostasy, by the very nature of its origin. The original Church of Christ was to be restored to him say.
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This sect embodies two other traits that mark the movement stabilizers and secure: nationalism and paternalism. The Mormon Church is a typical American. It flatters the patriotism of its members by providing not only a revelation, a prophet and a “bible” of home, but also teaching them that Christ visited the American continent, the true “promised land” which arise the true Church. It leads, moreover, the “American virtues” par excellence of democracy, patriotism, civility, honesty, hard work, the value of money (the Mormons pay 10% of their income to the Church, thus benefiting from the prosperity of its members.) and up to hygiene obsession in the United States …
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Steven Error, 21, is the very image of all-american boy. And short blond hair, glowing face with soap and sincerity, smile looking good, he is originally from Salt Lake City, Utah. A young Mormon missionaries who propagate beliefs of their church throughout the world, it is in Paris for several months, where he recently hosted a group of American folk dancers, touring Europe.
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This group was sent by Brigham Young University, Provo from a small town at the foot of the Rocky Mountains in Utah. The largest private university in the U.S., with over 25,000 students, Brigham Young University is a Mormon. “Young people who want Mormons, Steven explains, are invited to devote two years of their life (18 months for women), after military service, mission. Sent in the world, they are maintained, not by church, but by their families. ”
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With the zeal of these young missionaries courteous and confident, the Mormon church has undergone a tremendous expansion. Of the 10 million Mormons around the world, including more than 4.6 million in the U.S., there were approximately 30,000 in France (source 1996), who agreed without hesitation a doctrine which might be as confusing as silly: corporality of God, miraculous revelation of the Book of Mormon to Joseph Smith on tablets of gold, then taken to heaven by an angel, baptême retroactive for past, gathering of the ten tribes scattered across the American continent will be built where the Holy Sion, governed by Christ in person, etc …
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Paternalistic and pervasive, the Mormon Church takes its faithful support for almost all aspects of their lives. If the church does not have a strong hierarchical structure (every man and boy over twelve years may become a priest, (though the blacks, when considered with the Indians as the descendants of the tribe of infidels “Lamanites” could not qualify until 1978.) mormon the assiduous spends most of his time between religious services, Sunday School, the “society of mutual improvement,” the various meetings and cultural programs for and mutual assistance.
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Here are the week of the perfect Mormon family “as described in a brochure published in french by the church:” On Monday evening, the Jones family still at home. This is the day of the family night. The authorities of the church recommended to all families to spend at least one night of the week together to promote and preserve the unity and love in the family. On Tuesday afternoon, Mrs. Jones goes to the meeting of the Society relief, auxiliary organization of the church for women. On Tuesday afternoon, after school, Suzanne, the little girl of eight years, goes to the primary, auxiliary corporation of the church for children. The young members of the parish receive religious instruction, are games and learn different crafts.
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The Book of Mormon
On Tuesday evening, Elizabeth and Thomas, nineteen and fourteen, goes to the Mutual Improvement Society. Thomas is a scout (the Mormon church has the largest number of boys enrolled in Scouting to all religious organizations in the United States), while qu’Elisabeth found a group of young people of his age. They follow different courses, including drama, oratory, dance and music.
The days follow one another all marked by a “pious”. Wednesday: Repeat heart for women and “meeting of the episcopate” for men. Thursday evening, Mr. Jones and Thomas will work on the ground of the chapel, with men and boys in place. “They spend a good time together.”
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Friday, the brochure continues, it is a much anticipated event by Elisabeth. The “pile” of Blue Ridge is holding its grand ballroom spring. All parishes of the pile meets six times per year for these dances. To watch these 500 couples, these young girls in evening dresses, you never would think that this is the program of a church. The only evidence that can prove it is an opening prayer and the fact that nobody is drinking and does not smoke. The evening is full of dignity and refinement. But there was nothing morose or devout among these dancers. They’re good fun.
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On Saturday afternoon, Thomas and his father go in the garden of the parish grow peas for the project for assistance. On Sunday morning, in Jones, everyone is preparing to go to church. At 9 am, Thomas and his father go to priesthood meeting. Thomas is a deacon, the father was high priest. Priests are mainly concerned with the material life of the parish. Thus, this Sunday, the bishop said that the cement sidewalks surrounding the chapel are badly worn and cracked and that the mass of the lawn should be arranged.
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Mormons: mode d’emploi
Official Name: Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
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Founder: Joseph Smith (1805-1844, U.S.
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Teaching: The Bible, which contains errors, should be supplemented by the revelation given to Joseph Smith. It teaches the physicality of God, the miraculous gift of the Book of Mormon Smith on tablets of gold, then taken to heaven by an angel, the gathering of 10 tribes scattered across the American continent will be built where the “Holy Sion “baptism retroactive to past generations (baptism of the dead). Respect for the 10 commandments, the payment of tithes (10% of revenue), purity and fidelity (they polygamy was allowed only by historical necessity at a time when the survival of the colony was threatened by reality it was abandoned under pressure from the U.S. government). Ban stimulants, coffee, alcohol, tobacco.
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Purpose: Restoring the Christian Church of the apostles, who witnessed the apostasy and lost the whole truth. Making the perfect mormon through mastery of the body and instincts.
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Organization: “President, Prophet and Seer” is the head of the hierarchy and its “revelations” that are authoritative for all Mormons. The “First Presidency” is made by the Chair with 2 consultants. Then the council of 12 apostles, in charge of missionary work world, and the Council of 70, with 7 presidents. All these people belong to the “priesthood of Melchizedek,” which deals with matters spiritual and temporal, while the “priesthood of Aaron, in which all can aspire Mormon male and white only deals with material issues.
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Recruitment and indoctrination: All young Mormon from 18 to 20 years spend one or two years of their life to evangelism at the expense of their family. The recruitment is done from door to door or on the street. The Mormons have a very regular service and work, with the emphasis on hypiène food and family values. They are supervised very strictly and follow a number of meetings of prayer and mutual improvement.
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Basic Book: Book of Mormon, Doctrine and Covenants, The Pearl of Great Price.
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The bishop said that this issue has been discussed by a committee. He asked, with his associates, we take care of immediately. it said that Brother Taylor (Brother called the Mormons) lends his truck and concrete mixers … After the meeting of priesthood, the Sunday school, meeting for all church members, from youngest to oldest. The entire Jones family attends. On Sunday afternoon, Mr. Jones and the Bishop go to the hospital run by the church, see a member of the parish who is seriously ill, impose hands and pronounce a blessing.
In the evening there is a service of worship to everyone in the family also attends. Elizabeth and her mother sing in a choir and sometimes it was Mr Jones who runs the meeting. Thomas, who is a deacon, distributes the Lord’s Supper to members, with other boys. That could be the week of a Mormon family.
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Twelfth President of the Mormon church, based (rather restored, say the Mormons) to Fayette in 1830, Mr. Spencer Kimball, “prophet, seeing and revealing” had given a press conference in Paris, surrounded by some members of the Board the twelve apostles. ” It looks quite what it was during his long career of “profane” banker, and owner and director of an insurance company and a real estate company …
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The myopic eyes, (the mister Maggoo) voice slow and dull, as a result of a vocal cord, President Kimball said that “the expansion is the priority task of the church.” Despite a typical American, it is established in 75 countries and ten million followers, including about ten thousand in France.
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The prohibition among Mormons of tobacco, drugs, alcohol, coffee and tea, and their diet moderate and balanced, rich in fruit and cereals and low in meat, health guarantees unusual. In the United States, they live longer and better than the majority of their fellow citizens, and a survey conducted since 1970 in Utah and California shows that cancer mortality Mormon adults is only half that of the general population.
Cleanliness is next to godliness (cleanliness is next to holiness) said Anglo-Saxon proverb. In Latin countries, there is little rapprochement. For Mormons, however, cleanliness can lead to holiness, and the water of baptism is more than a symbol.
But the family is the pillar of the Mormon faith. “The nation that destroys families, destroys the society.” said President Kimball, who considers divorce and abortion among “the most revolting sins committed in these last days, leading to the appalling sexual immorality we are currently witnessing.” To fight against these “evils”, and as idleness is the mother of all vices, the Mormons found a radical solution: take the faithful, especially young people, all the time. As evidenced by the “week of the perfect Mormon family.”
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“We hold our children to prevent them from challenging society,” no secret Mr. Kimball, who is very proud of the fact that not a single protest from the students of Brigham Young University. (sic)
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But there are some shadows on this idyllic picture. The church, until 1978, refused to grant the priesthood to blacks. “We did not want to hurt anyone, said at the time Mr. Eldon Tanner,” general supervision “of the church and president of the genealogical society, but we believe that when God restores the Priesthood of Aaron, he did not consider good to give to blacks. ” Neither women, whose role “outstanding” is to be a good mother and wife. As for ecumenism, and they merely say: “No compromise with the other churches, because we have the truth.” QED.

Canada Travel place from Canadian Chat
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There is so much to see in Canada, this vast country of over 9 million km ²! Its snow-capped mountains and thick forests of cedar motivate those who strive for peace and relaxation. It was already dreaming of snowmobile trips and nights in a comfortable wooden chalet. One feels almost cold cheeks sting us! Canadian parks welcome all year lovers escape, so the more cautious may prefer to go there in October to discover the charms of Indian summer.
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Indians, trappers, gold miners and early settlers were all bent to the hard law of that vast territory. Faced with a harsh climate, the inhabitants are concentrated in large cities. Eastern Canada has a string of friendly cities and lively, Toronto header. Ottawa distills a more subdued, worthy of its status as capital. In museums, we began with interest in American art. Quebec, the most European of Canadian cities, is the only city in North America to have maintained its fortifications. Montreal is in turn a great melting pot of cultures. It is also known for its festivals known throughout the world.
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The Queen City
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Languorously of Vancouver’s most rustic Calgary, Canada Western Reserve also a lot of wonderful discoveries. Alberta, through the chain of the Rocky Mountains, offers a wide variety of landscapes. Snow-crowned peaks, tranquil lakes and roaring rivers, canyons and prairies are some landscapes that you will tutoyer. The practice of sport is at hand.
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Winnipeg, a city of about 600 000 inhabitants, is the center of the country, halfway between Newfoundland and Vancouver Island. It has played an important role in building Canada. In Calgary, the capital of oil and rodeo, the cowboy is never far away. You can even be hosted and participate in the life of a ranch!
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Vancouver Night
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In the extreme west of Canada, Vancouver Island, attracted by its climate. Victoria, the largest city of the island, a French stamp, which would almost certainly that is in Canada. Vancouver is a jewel in the rough, set by the Pacific Ocean. His gentle way of life and economic vitality are a Mecca for many. It is often compared to San Fransisco.
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Canada does not leave you hungry for your discoveries! From East to West, whatever your background or your destination, you meet a warm and tolerant people. It is no coincidence that 20 million tourists visit Canada each year …

Married Chat: Building Happy Marriage
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Praise and encouragement to your spouse is important. Be sure your praise is sincere and specific. A spouse must congratulate his wife for the special meal she prepared with love, a wife her husband to be congratulated for having lifted the first to turn the heating in the house – these are some examples of caring and encouraging remarks, which can stimulate and develop your spouse’s love and appreciation in your marriage. Think about the meaning of the word “appreciation”. I will never forget the constant expressions of thanks and appreciation made by my mother. This has meant that the whole family loved him and appreciated more and I am sure this contributed greatly to the joy and stability in the long and happy marriage of my parents.
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Remember that within the marriage, your communications should be on a positive tone. Wanting to “look for the little beast,” or constantly criticize, is not the right way to communicate must be avoided at all costs, refrain from such negative because it destroys a marriage. A man who lectures and continually corrects his wife is so senseless! How could it respond with meekness and love, if it is regularly “demeaned” and picked up by her husband? The Bible also reveals that a woman is at fault, if she complains, continually grumpy or lecturing her husband. “Better to live on the corner of a roof, to share the home of a woman strife” (Proverbs 21: 9).
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Once again, an abundant and positive, based on love, sharing information, sharing of projects and dreams between husband and wife is the very essence of a happy marriage. Think about it! God himself “sharing” his hopes and plans with us, who are only mortal beings: “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know what his master is doing, but I called you friends because I know you’ve done everything that I learned from my Father “(John 15: 15). If Christ Alive interested in us, to the point of “everything” what he has learned from God the Father, how much more so should we not be willing to reveal and share our thoughts and dreams with our spouse?
Work and dream together
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Whether during your walks, your conversations, in the joyous moments or sad moments, made a joint return, designed to restore your youth and dreams of the future. Discuss and analyze these dreams by showing love and understanding to one another. Then, work together to make them real.
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You, the wives brings the hopes and aspirations of the young girl, perhaps, was walking in the fields of his father, at sunset – dreaming of finding a husband, and have updates own homes, children, safety, warmth and joy. Work together to achieve those dreams.
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Learn to respond to one another openly and with love. Do not be secrets. Do not grudge. It’s your life, your spouse, your love. Learn to think and feel in unison, solve all your problems, as in a team. The encouragement and reciprocal stimulation that you will develop and the warmth and love that you feel will add an extra dimension of understanding, purpose and joy, that you can not get otherwise. Because it is not good that man should be alone “(Genesis 2: 18).
Marriage means giving of oneself
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Jesus Christ was the demonstration of the love of God as anyone else. He did so in many ways. But the sublime demonstration of this love was when he voluntarily gave His life and shed his blood to become our Savior.
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As we have seen, the relationship between Christ and the true church illustrates the relationship between husband and wife. At the end of His physical life, based on the principles of a gift of service, Jesus Christ gave Himself for the Church. All husbands are instructed: “Husbands, everyone loves his wife as Christ loved the Church and gave himself for it, in order to sanctify by purifying and cleansing the water by of speech, to appear before him this glorious church without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but holy and blameless. Thus, the husband must love his wife as his own body. He who loves his wife loves himself “(Ephesians 5 :25-28).
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Generally, we tend to think of our own needs. We take care of our personal desires. We provide what we are pleased. But from the moment we become “one flesh” in the eyes of God, we must learn to think differently – to be considered first and foremost the needs and desires of our spouse, how to take care of our “half”! This requires thinking, organization, self-understanding and to give of oneself. This is the basis of marriage!
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One of the most significant sayings of Jesus Christ is not word for word in the Gospels, but in a statement of the apostle Paul described in the book of Acts: “I have shown in any manner that it is working as it should support the weak, and remember the words of the Lord, who himself said: It is more blessed to give than to receive “(Acts 20: 35). There is much happiness to, especially in marriage. In general, the more you give, the more you get. ” As you try to encourage, serve, and give your spouse will tend to do the same. You give them both. ‘ll Use both. The warmth and appreciation reign in your marriage and you will be both delighted.
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Every husband should consider carefully how to increase the joy and fulfillment of his wife. Could not help sometimes to do the dishes or cleaning? Could it be the biggest chores in and around the house? Should not encourage him to sleep more, do more exercise, more to entertain and change of pace? If they have the financial means, might not invite him to dinner once or twice a week? Could not take him from time to time for the weekend in “honeymoon”, to break the routine of daily life and work? Could he not try to enrich their life together, taking his wife to concerts, visiting museums, attending educational conferences, and others? Well adapted to each situation, these activities, and many others, are ways in which a husband may “give”.
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In turn, a woman should think how to enrich the physical, emotional, intellectual, and happiness of her husband. Perhaps it’s most often prepare favorite dishes? It could also encourage them to do more exercises to relax, to take care of his health. Perhaps it is a break in the afternoon or after work, or take a quick shower and change clothes, to appear beautiful and feel alert, as it did when dating. Should not encourage him to share his views on world events, or spiritual issues? Should not respond generously to his affection, and be extremely grateful to be married?
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You may have heard that in marriage, it’s 50-50. You’re halfway there, and your spouse is the other half. But who determines the middle of the road, if you disagree? True love is giving without expecting anything in return – give 100% – and do more than what we could “wait” on your part.
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Christ spoke of this principle: “If you force someone to go a mile, do two with him” (Matthew 5: 41). Yes, even if you do not do so, humanely, made the extra miles, and give your spouse. God will give you what you need. Ask Him to help you give more love, more love and respect to your spouse, and with time you will be blessed by the rewards and benefits of a marriage that is improving.
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Think about the different ways you can give. Small gifts, or a few words of appreciation, make a big difference. A hug or a kiss unexpected, which only require a little effort on your part, can be a precious gift in the eyes of your wife. A simple question like: “How was your day? “Can be a sign of welcome attention, and the opportunity to share thoughts and feelings private.
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I know a very busy couple who nevertheless took the time to witness their love for each other and their mutual interest. One evening, while the women served the meal, she asked her husband: “Do you need something else? “The husband smiled and said:” I need your love. “She smiled. He was backing his chair. She sat on the lap of her husband, and they serrèrent in their arms and embraced. This kind of spontaneity and generosity can create an atmosphere of love and peace.
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This is not always romantic, this is not always idealistic, but day after day, year after year, a happy couple trying to “give” to one another. Everyone will try, in every way possible to assist his spouse to develop their abilities God has granted. Because we can not “receive” (meaning “with”) a happy marriage, unless we learn to obtain (in the sense of “give”) a happy marriage!
Learning to forgive
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Another essential requirement for a marriage to be truly happy, is the willingness to forgive. When two people share their lives, when almost all day and night, it is inevitable that there is occasional friction. After all, we are only human beings. And the best way to solve this problem is by far to do so in the divine way.
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Bouder, ruminate, loan bad thoughts to your spouse, or to assign reasons is bad nonsense. This can only increase the problems, discontent, and perhaps even end in divorce. It is certain, as we have said, you should discuss your injuries and your disagreements. Try to listen to your spouse – instead of thinking about what you will say next! Do not think how you will return to the attack, or “revenge.”
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Revenge?
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Revenge against whom? If you fully understand that you and your spouse are “one flesh,” united by God for life, looking at you “revenge” for yourself! You would not hurt you. This would be an “against-attack” against yourself.
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But what should you do if, after an argument or a discussion with your spouse about any injury – actual or imaginary – yet you feel upset or angry? Again, just what God asks you to do in such situations – forgive!
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“Yes, but it’s entirely his fault! “Could you say. “He [or she] did not even apologized, then how can I forgive him? “By praying sincerely and with the advice of God, you can come to forgive everybody, and all sorts of” injustices “, real or imagined, this car just to ‘cut the road at the exit the motorway, the son of the neighbor who puts his rock too high during the night or the neighbor who peddling gossip about you.
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Even for crimes worse than this, our ultimate example, Jesus Christ said: “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do” (Luke 23: 34).
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We need to realize that most people did not “intend” to hurt us. They did not “intend” to hurt us. They are simply human beings. They leak hurtful words, or they are wrong, without thinking about what they actually do. Very often, it “hurts”.
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One who gave His life for us, we are commanded: “If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive men, your Father will not forgive you your trespasses not” (Matthew 6 :14-15). So if we forgive everyone in this way, what more reason do we not forgive our spouse who has become our flesh and our bones?
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What if your husband continues to bring mud from the garden, or the fat of the garage? What if your wife continues to let the toast burn once or twice a week? Learn to approach your spouse in a constructive manner, and discuss it, of course. Even if some of these weaknesses persist for years, keep the right approach to forgive. After all, it is better sometimes scratch your toast, but to live alone, do your kitchen, and have nobody to talk to, or shake in your arm. Never forget the recommendation of the Christ: “Then Peter came to him and said: Lord, how many times I forgive my brother when he sin against me? Will it be up to seven times? Jesus said to him, I tell you not seven times but until seventy times seven times “(Matthew 18 :21-22).
The spirit of forgiveness
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We all need to regularly ask God in our prayers, to give us the “spirit of forgiveness.” Some people seem to have terrible trouble forgive others. One would think that they take “pleasure” to cover injuries and bitterness with them for years.
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Remember that, generally, your anger towards other human beings does not hurt much. It is even possible that they are not aware! But it hurts you. It makes you cranky, unhappy, and often difficult to live. Professionals have discovered that these negative emotions often cause ulcers, stomach problems, high blood pressure, attacks and heart attacks. Your negative emotions can literally kill you!
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Again, ask your Heavenly Father to help you overcome this tendency and learn to love all human beings, to forgive them – especially your spouse! Try changing your thinking, not to leave you “hurt” so easily. God is the Father of mercies “(2 Corinthians 1: 3). As you will realize that you often need to be forgiven, ask God to help you forgive others.
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The apostle Peter was inspired to recommend all men of “honor” their wives, “as should also inherit the [...] the grace of life [...] so that does nothing to hinder your prayers” (1 Peter 3: 7). Then Peter goes on to give instructions, which apply to our lives as Christians – especially in our marriage: “Finally, be all motivated the same thoughts and feelings the same, full of brotherly love, compassion, humility . Meeting point not evil for evil, or insult for insult; bless the contrary, because that is what you have been called to inherit the blessing. If anyone, in fact, wants to love life and see good days, he keeps his tongue from evil and his lips words misleading, it moves away from evil and do good, it looks peace and continue “(verses 8-11).
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We have to consider marriage as a sort of “workshop” that teaches us how to give, how to share and how to forgive others, continually. As we look closely at the verses above, it becomes clear that God wants us to learn to treat our spouse with kindness and a special courtesy. But in most marriages, each ends up not “have regard” to the other. Everyone tends to let go and speak to the spouse of an abrupt and disrespectful. You can forget how easy it is to hurt another by words and thoughtless acts. You can forget how important it is in a marriage, to “seek peace and pursue it.”
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Think about it! Think how difficult it can be for your spouse to support all acts of selfishness and personal mannerisms that you – like any human being. If you were in his place, can you afford?
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Nobody can be happy keeping injuries and bitterness in her heart – especially towards his spouse. With God’s help, learn to completely forgive your spouse at any time and walk together to really build relationships based on love.
Establishing a Kingdom Family
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Building a happy marriage, but also found a “family realm”. An old saying says: “The house of a man is his castle. This analogy should apply to the entire family where the husband is the king, his wife a queen beloved, and her children of the princes and royal princesses who need to perform their future responsibilities. Parents must work together with enthusiasm, for these future leaders are carefully bred, guided, disciplined, and prepared for the important roles they will play in the years to come.
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The application of these two concepts in marriage – the sincere and loving union of bodies, hearts and minds of a married couple, and the creation of a “family realm” – to allow the man and the woman find total fulfillment. This development is depicted by the Psalmist: “Blessed [blessed] Any man who fears the LORD, who walk in his ways! [...] Your wife is like a fruitful vine within your house, your son are like olive plants around your table “(Psalm 128: 1, 3).
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Once you fully grasp these concepts related to the meaning and purpose of marriage, why do not you bâtiriez your marriage and your home all around them?
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Instead of becoming indifferent, the husband and wife should both be extremely interested to get this mini “Family Kingdom”, they are building together. They should have a common interest, to teach, to improve their family, their financial situation and making plans – for their future.
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Because, in a happy marriage, there is no question of one spouse to say “my house”, “my car” or even “my salary.” Rather, it should be no question “of our house, our car, our wages”.
Build all your “castle”
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Together, the couple should look ahead and make future plans to improve the “castle” family. The feelings of the woman, her agreement and its jurisdiction to decorate the house, arrange for outside furniture, etc.. Should always be taken into account. Every major purchase, like a house or a car, should be a family project – an opportunity and a privilege to share experience between husband and wife.
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Are there certain things you should not talk?
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In principle, no. Everything must be discussed and shared.
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Without being silly or unrealistic, the husband and wife should be aware that they are “partners” engaged in a great adventure, to build a career, a case, a common life. They should discuss the details of their mutual allies – friends, business associates, parents – and take part both in the discussion, expressing their ideas and strategies, discuss in detail what they could do individually to achieve their projects.
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And then there are the children! As discussions, projects and problems to solve – of hope and dreams to share them!
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Establish regular family goals may in fact create a “feeling of being really together.” If both husband and wife work, they can discuss in detail how to put enough money aside so that the woman after a few years, may stop working and decide to have children. Then they must discuss how to prepare financial future, when in retirement. How to prepare for their old age? Where to move to reduce costs? What lifestyle they want there best at that time? Will they keep working to make staying at home to increase the amount of their pension?

If both husband and wife live in “team”, their marriage will really make sense. They will participate in the development of a “family realm”. They want to build and share the great adventure of life together, in a special way.
The physical attraction is important
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Talking, finally, the physical attraction. Although this is the catalyst that brings together the young couples, they often forget the importance of other aspects of marriage, we have developed.
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Because, no matter how many years of marriage, regardless of “age” you have, the profound need for romantic love and affection is still there, for most couples. The desire to kiss and hug, “to have and hold” is almost as necessary for many people that inspire and expire.
Nothing is more true!
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The supreme God who created us man and wife specifically designed our genitals. He created man and woman to be attracted to one another. He put in us feelings and emotions that lead to sexual expression. What was the first order that God gave to Adam and Eve? “God blessed them and God said unto them, Be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subjected it” (Genesis 1: 28).
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Note that according to our first parents “gift” of sexuality and human reproduction, God “blessed”. Because sexuality is a blessing when properly used in the context of marriage. In the physical sense, it causes the total union of hearts, minds, emotions and bodies of two human beings who love each other so hard they pledged each other for life. As we have seen, is an illustration of the total union that will end one day between Christ and the true Church of God (Ephesians 5 :22-25).
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This holy union between man and woman married is so important that God consecrated one of the Ten Commandments to protect it! He commands us: “Thou shalt not commit adultery” (Exodus 20: 14). And Jesus Christ magnify or amplify this command by saying: “You have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt not commit adultery. But I tell you that whoever looks at a woman to lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart “(Matthew 5 :27-28).
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Since sexuality is used in marriage as a reaffirmation of love, trust, spirit gift of each spouse to the other, it is something wonderful and sacred in God’s eyes. Frankly, this should not be devalued, despised or popularized by its constant use, as in modern films, television and other media. This only serves to tarnish what God intended to be the supreme expression of love within marriage – symbolizing Christ and the Church.

We must be aware that Satan is “diabolical” in his ingenious way to degrade and devalue the divine blessing, encouraging the misuse of certain things. And, appealing to millions of people to misuse the gift of sex, Satan comes to destroy the foundation of God suitable for any company – the home and family. That is exactly what happens today in most of Western society! On the other hand, God wants that young married couples love each other completely. His inspired revelation tells us: “Let marriage be honored by all, and the marriage bed without defilement, for God will judge the fornication and adultery” (Hebrews 13: 4).
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Again, the Bible teaches us: “May your source is blessed, and let your joy of the wife of your youth, loves deer, gazelle, full of grace: be drunk at any time of its charms, always loving his love . And why, my son, would you be in love with a stranger and kiss you with an unknown? “(Proverbs 5 :18-20).
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When a young couple begins to attend, they usually spend much time in romantic activities. They make long walks. They will eat in restaurants romantic, they will dance, they hold hands, they laugh together and try to understand and appreciate the other person they consider a partner for life. They are almost always cared for, well dressed, and sometimes flavored with fine perfume or toilet water. In all, they try to “get in their thirty-one.”
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However, after the wedding and honeymoon, many couples begin to let go. Sometimes the husband does more shower before going to bed. The woman leaves her hair or wears elegant little dresses in the presence of her husband. She may “forget” to take a bath, put a pretty dress to be beautiful for him when he returns from work. Today, there are so many women who work outside, it becomes even more difficult for them.
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However, the husband and the woman should try to “keep the flame of their love! They should do everything they can to continue to witness the attentions and courtesies special when they were attending at the beginning of their marriage. A husband kisses his wife before going to work. He embraced with a hug special home from work, he will thank and kiss “for dessert” after dinner. Perhaps the help there to do the dishes, or happen to sneak tighten in her arms, while she is standing in front of the sink, etc.. Each spouse should try to give affection and appreciation to the other. Thereafter, it will come more easily and naturally. Because both spouses reach “love” at any time and, on the physical level, this will make their marriage happy and beautiful!
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Giving is a vital aspect in your marriage. Do not allow anything to hinder the building of this kind of love, romantic atmosphere in your home. Do not let the “cares of work” to interpose. Do not let concerns about children, or keeping the house in a state of “perfect”, or anything else stop you from developing in your home and your marriage, the special love and joy Your Creator has planned!
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Husbands, do not be pedantic, fussy, demanding or your wife. Love her, encourage her and arouse her desire to respond to your affection and your constant kindness. Try to “give” of yourself in every way possible and make his life full and joyful.
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Women take the time and effort to be “love” your husband. Make him their affection and try to inspire and encourage in every possible way. As part of the divine laws, try to make them happy and satisfied. Her smile, “joking” with him, kiss him with passion, make it happy to be married.

Learn to love you both truly and to “cherish”. Put your knees to pray and ask God to help you become more loving! Meet him graces, with gratitude, you have given a life partner, friend, companion, with whom you can fully share the blessings of this physical existence.
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Ask God to help you use all the keys mentioned in this brochure for a happy marriage. And then, despite the hardships and experiences that we all, you have someone really “special” to encourage you and help you along the way. In this union ordered by God, that we call marriage, you learn in a remarkable fashion how to respect the second great commandment of our Creator: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22: 39).

Your Rights and Responsibilities: in Home Loan Modification, ( Loan application, modification of your loan agreement, repayment of loan )
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When ready, you have the right to receive important information at the right time. If you – or if you plan to get – a loan, line of credit, credit card or a credit card from a financial institution under federal regulations, you should know that:
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* Financial institutions must provide information on the cost of borrowing and any charges or penalties;
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* Financial institutions must express the cost of borrowing to an annual rate and, in certain circumstances, an amount expressed in dollars and cents;
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* You have the right to repay a loan before its due date without penalty, unless the loan is secured by mortgages;
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* You do not have to maintain a minimum credit balance, unless you consent.
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You should also know things to Stop Foreclosure:
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* The annual interest rate applicable to the card;
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* The method of calculating interest;
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* The grace period, if any;
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* The date from which interest accrues;
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* How often you receive your statement (at least once a month);
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* The extent to which you must pay the balance in full when you receive your statement, and the interest rate that applies in case of partial payment;
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* Your minimum monthly payment or the method of calculation;
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* Your initial credit limit – unless the issuer of the credit card has not yet established (in which case the issuer must give you this information no later than the date you receive your first statement );
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* Optional services offered, such as insurance-credit balance, the costs for each of them and the conditions under which the borrower can cancel;
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* All other applicable fees or charges;
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* A local phone number or toll free you can call during business hours for information on your account.

Italian researchers believe they have discovered on an island in the lagoon of Venice, in a mass grave dating from the sixteenth century, the remains of a woman “vampire” – at least regarded as such by his contemporaries.
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The body was found on the island of Lazzaretto Nuovo was buried with a brick wedged between the jaws, presumably to prevent it, according to the beliefs of the time to come suck the blood of victims of the plague that raged when the Serenissima .
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“The ritual of exorcism”
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For Borrini Matteo, an anthropologist at the University of Florence, this finding confirms that at the time believed that “vampires” were responsible for epidemics like the plague. “This is the first time you arrive to reconstruct the ritual of exorcism of a vampire,” he told Reuters. “This shows that this myth existed.”
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The skeleton was found on the small island located three miles northeast of Venice, in a mass grave containing the bodies of victims of the plague in 1576 which claimed the life including the painter Titian.
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Outbreaks of plague that ravaged Europe between the fourteenth and eighteenth centuries have fueled the belief in vampires, mainly because the process of decomposing body was misunderstood, “said Professor Borrini. The gravediggers saw frightening corpses which, according to the beliefs of the time were those convicted of vampires sucking the blood of mortals to return to life. For more about Vampire talk it here on Vampire Chat

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